In saucepan melt 2 tbsp butter over medium heat, stir in flour and cook for 1 minute. Gradually whisk in warm milk blending well and constantly stirring until smooth and thickened.
Add a pinch of salt, pepper and add cheese one handful at a time mixing until cheese is melted. Set aside off the heat.
Ham and Eggs
In a frypan add remaining 1 tbsp butter. Drop in ham, eggs, green onions, thyme and a pinch of salt & pepper.
Scramble it all together for about 3 minutes until eggs are cooked & moist. Stir in fresh parsley and mix into your cheese sauce. Let cool slightly.
Assemble
Preheat oven to 375 F.
Please 1 sheet of phyllo on work surface (always keep remaining phyllo covered with a damp tea towel to prevent drying out). Brush lightly with butter. Fold in half lengthwise, brushing lightly again with butter.
Spoon approximately 1/3 cup of the egg mixture along 1 narrow end of phyllo, leaving 1 inch border. Sprinkle with parmesan cheese. Fold sides over to enclose filling, roll up.
Place seam side down on greased baking sheet (or foil lined). Brush top with butter. Sprinkle with more parmesan, hot chili flakes and flaked sea salt.
Bake for 10-15 minutes until golden. Let stand 5 minutes before serving. Serve immediately with fresh fruit.